I'm not the type of person that likes to give relationship advice, so don't you ever for a second get to thinkin' this is what this post is about. Nor am I about to praise pop stars and make it seem like their celebrity doesn't make them human... naw. On the contrary, I'm about to point out some key reasons why Jay-Z and Beyoncé's courtship is exactly like the one you're in (or not in). Please note, that if you're single, most of this stuff won't apply to you, but if you got a baby mama harder than a lot of the dudes you know, read on:
PEOPLE LOVE SEEING YOU WITH SOMEONE THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY
You don't have to be the '03 Bonnie & Clyde to have this effect on folks either! Naturally, people enjoy the site of two crazy people doing crazy things together and being crazy in love. It's pretty magical finding the person that shares the same interest and passions as you do. To have a person that makes you feel like you've been here before, almost to the point when you swear its deja vu. Sure, you've had a few misfires with the people you've dated before, and its took some time to find that perfect person, but still, who wants that perfect love story anyway? Cliché. You probably go through your rough patches, but you're still with someone that is making you a better person and tryin' to upgrade u, right?
EVERYBODY WANTS A LOVE
THAT IS BEING RECIPROCATED
Quick reality check: There's no way I could possibly sit here and talk about Jay-Z and Yoncé like they are the end all/be all to healthy relationships. You don't need to compare yourself to anyone else. Just do your own thing and be happy with yourself and who you share your happiness with. Don't get it twisted though, it is extremely cool seeing a couple's reaction when Drunk In Love starts playing... Meanwhile, as with all things, there are going to be highs and lows, ups and downs, strikes and gutters. There's always gonna be conflict between two people, but the best way to mediate a problem is work together and resolve it.
"PUT US TOGETHER,
HOW YOU 'GON STOP BOTH US?"
So the next time you hear a Jayonce song , don't feel like they've tapped into a higher level of intimacy or romance, they are just like everybody else, except with a lot more money, business savvy, and fans.
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